it. That's got some real venom behind it and I could Single woman searching fucking dating chat sexy where that resentment would come from. A woman who made a choice to leave her behind and chose, a woman who had a with a who's serving a prison sentence. That left you to step in and do the right thing. Now she wants to wave some magic wand and have it all back. I mean she's been good for whole days The eye roll you must have made at that probably just about made you permanently blind. So now you're stuck trying to figure out how to do the right thing again. That's a tough one to navigate and what I would remind myself of here is that 'I chose this course and this burden when I took custody, I DID have a choice and I could have turned away from this, but I chose this. When I did that I also chose to somehow deal with this situation when it came. This is NOT her doing, nor my -'s, this situation is where I placed myself.' Doing the right thing often has consequences too, it's often struggle, hardship. It's NOT the easy path and the reward isn't something tangible, it's just the knowledge you did your best and what you felt was right. This is dig deep time and focus on the ultimate goal. A goal only possible if this 'mother' cleans her shit up and really takes the high road. I think the s for counseling are definitely in order, seek professional help and I think clear communication relaying that is very important. Mom, the answer is no. You cannot her, not right now. There has been damage done here that is deep and lasting and I not subject your daughter to your instability at this time. There be rules for you to regain a role in your daughter's life, what that role be is up to you. I'm sure you your daughter, that's not the issue. This isn't about how much you might care about her, this is about how you care FOR her and her well being. That be more important and that take your actions to show your ability to do so, not a few days and this is not to ease the pain you feel, the truth is the pain you feel isn't going to be a factor. I you can handle that and my is you. That should be communicated with kindness and compassion the goal is to motivate not make sure she serves a sentence and there be a fine line. Good luck